Holding Possibility for You

Welcome to another week of Marriage Monday.

I don’t know if you’ve ever had someone hold possibility for you before you could hold it for yourself—but it is powerful and sacred. My parents did that for me when I was young. Maybe for you it’s been a teacher or a coach, maybe a friend, your children, or even your spouse.

At some point in every meaningful achievement, we start to believe in the possibility of it working. That belief—that hope—is what fuels real change.

So today, I want to offer you this:

There is potential for a marriage that feels like peace.

A marriage that feels like connection and support.

And it’s possible for you—even if your current circumstances say otherwise.

Here’s the good news:

Your spouse doesn’t have to change for your marriage to change.

The truth is, marriages can’t help but shift when even one person starts showing up differently. When we learn better tools, when we change our perspective—our homes, our relationships, and our lives start to transform.

Now, as we step into the second half of 2025, I invite you to reflect:

• What’s been working well in your marriage these past six months?

• What would you love to improve?

• And most importantly… what do you want to believe is possible for the second half of this year?

If you’re not quite able to believe it yet—let me do that for you.

Let me hold the vision until you can.

This work has changed my life, and I know without a doubt it can change yours too. The tools are simple, practical, and powerful. They help you create peace instead of chaos. Connection instead of confusion.

And the impact? It doesn’t stop with your marriage. It ripples down to your children and future generations. Because learning to love better is the greatest legacy you can leave.

So here’s your Marriage Monday Challenge – pick one:

Option 1: Visualize Possibility

Write down 3 things you wish were true about your marriage—then spend 2 minutes visualizing them as if they already are. Feel it. See it. Believe it.

Option 2: Speak Life

Say one encouraging thing to your spouse today that you’ve been thinking but not saying. Watch how even small words can soften walls.

Option 3: Identify & Celebrate

Notice one thing your spouse does well in your marriage and tell them—out loud or in a note. Gratitude is a magnet for connection.

Let this be the week you invest in your marriage—and in yourself. You deserve it. Your family deserves it. Don’t settle for average when better is available, and beautiful is possible.

Until next week—keep doing the little things that compound into something amazing.

I hold complete possibility and potential for your incredible marriage.

If you’re curious about what it could look like to work with me 1-on-1 and see what coaching can do for you, I’d love to connect. Just reply to this email or send me a private DM. I’m here for you.