60 Years, 30 Together

A Love Story You Can’t Miss

Good morning, dear friends!

Today is a special day—it’s my husband Rory’s 60th birthday. Sixty! When we got married 30 years ago, the thought of reaching this milestone felt so far off it was almost unimaginable. Yet here we are, and as I reflect on the years behind us and the time ahead, I’m struck by one undeniable truth: time moves faster than we can fathom.

I’m reminded of this especially because 20 years ago, when Rory turned 40, we celebrated his milestone at the National Finals Rodeo (NFR). At the time, our family wasn’t yet complete—we didn’t even have all of our children. Now, two decades later, we’re back at the NFR, but this time with all of our grown children by our side. The contrast between these two moments, 20 years apart, highlights just how quickly time flies. Back then, we were young parents building a life together. Now, we’re here, surrounded by the wonderful adults our children have become, celebrating Rory’s 60th in a way that feels both nostalgic and full of love.

Over the past three decades, we’ve shared incredible moments, raised a family, and built a life together. But we’ve also faced the sobering reality of friends passing away and moments lost forever. These experiences have taught me something vital—we don’t know how much time we have. None of us does. And while we can’t slow the clock, we can decide how we spend the moments we’re given.

When Rory and I were newlyweds, we moved to our home in the canyon. It was a magical place, surrounded by wildlife. I remember thinking, I hope I never get so used to this beauty that I stop seeing it for the gift it is. That sentiment applies to marriage, too. When something becomes familiar, it’s easy to forget how rare and precious it truly is.

So today, on Rory’s birthday, I’m making a vow to keep seeing him with new eyes each day—to not let our love become ordinary or something I take for granted. Each day with him is a gift, and I want to use it wisely.

My challenge for you this week is to do the same in your marriage. Let’s not waste time holding grudges, dwelling on what’s wrong, or waiting for the "perfect" moment to love deeply. Instead, make the effort to forgive, to forget, to serve, and to cherish. Remember that your spouse chose to share their life with you. What a gift! Make their life extraordinary because they joined it with you.

Let’s make the most of the time we have, however much that may be. Don’t let the rare gift of your marriage become something you take for granted. Love intentionally. Live gratefully. And grab hold of every moment.

Wishing you a week filled with love and purpose—and maybe even a reason to celebrate!

With love,

Leslie

Highlights from this week’s Marriage Monday

The Gift of Time: Reflect on how quickly milestones pass and cherish the moments with your spouse.

Intentional Love: Commit to seeing your partner with fresh eyes and valuing them deeply.

Family Traditions: Celebrate milestones together, making them meaningful for everyone involved.